APRIL IS
COUNSELING AWARENESS MONTH
In more recent times, we
have seen how the personal problems of some can adversely affect others.
This
can range from a crisis situation such as the shooting at an office in Georgia
to a tense office environment. Frustration, anger and tension are all too familiar
not only in the workplace but also in the society at large. This is evident
in the more recent problems we have seen in violence in certain schools across
the US.
Many times, there are missed
opportunities to help people to be at their best. This is where a counseling
approach can be helpful. Why? Well, counseling can help an individual pinpoint
and come to terms with particular issues or difficulties in his/her life.
While
there is no substitute for developing good social support and personal fulfillment,
counseling can facilitate positive change that not only impacts upon the individual
but all those who surround him/her.
But, what does counseling
entail?
A mental health professional
is there to listen, encourage and help individuals to find alternative ways
to get through a particular issue.
However, mental health practitioners
use different theories or emphasize certain things considered important to resolving
difficulties. Each counselor may have a particular orientation that guides his/her
counseling, or might be what is known as eclectic, meaning that many approaches
are used depending upon the issue. Individual, couple and family counseling
are guided by particular assumptions about human behavior.
So, it is useful to outline
some of the most common approaches to counseling.
- Psychodynamic -
This approach sees early life experiences as being pivotal to our current
way of relating to others. So, a counselor here is more likely to relate the
presenting problem to how we were raised and in some cases, the unconscious
mind driving behavior. The unconscious represents a part of the mind that
isn’t accessible to us but comes out in our dreams or slips of the tongue.
Drs. Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, Karen Horney, Rudolf Dreikurs and Alfred Adler
wrote extensively on these issues. This perspective is seen in private practice
and certain family counseling approaches.
- Behavioral - This
orientation is one that focuses on our behavior patterns. It is assumed that
correcting maladaptive behaviors is essential and that insight isn’t always
necessary to solving specific problems. Thus, it is goal oriented and specific
in its scope. Dr. B.F. Skinner and Albert Bandura provided the basis for this
theory. This approach is often used in schools and certain drug treatment/psychiatric
facilities.
- Cognitive - The
premise here is that our problems stem from, as Dr. Aaron Beck said, "faulty
thinking patterns." So, counselors here believe that if we can change
how we view particular problems then this will affect how we relate to others.
This perspective is seen in a variety of settings. Authors include Dr. Morita
of Japan, Dr. David Burns (Feeling Good Handbook), Dr. Aaron Beck, Dr. Jeffrey
Young and Dr. Barbara De Angelis.
- Cognitive Behavioral
- This approach examines thought and behavior patterns of individuals.
The
specific context of situations is emphasized. Dr. Phil McGraw is a psychologist
who appears on Oprah Winfrey’s Tuesday shows and models this approach.
- Humanistic and Existential
- Humanistic has to do with looking at how individual values, spirituality
and human relationships affect mental health. Existentialism examines how
people negotiate between their autonomy and the environment around them.
Both
emphasize how people form meaning in their lives. Humanistic authors include
Dr. Abraham Maslow (Hierarchy of Needs), Dr. Carl Rogers and Melanie Beatty.
Examples of Existential thinkers are Dr. Fritz Perls (Gestalt Technique) and
Dr. Rollo May.
- Human Relationship
Oriented and Couples Counseling - This approach emphasizes the cultivation
of human relationships. A key example of couples counseling is Dr. John Gray
(Men are from Mars Women are from Venus) and Dr. Phil McGraw, who was previously
mentioned. Couples-oriented counseling, or what is also termed marriage counseling,
focuses upon issues concerning the couple and how the individuals' interaction
with the other affects the relationship.
- Family Counseling
- Marriage and Family Counselors look at how individuals interact as individuals
and with each other. The specific orientation of the counselor can fall under
any of the above mentioned categories. A main goal is to restore the functioning
of a couple and or family through changing the way that people interact.
- Group Counseling
- This approach focuses on a particular concern or issue, such as alcoholism
or maybe a specific life issue. Groups are typically run by either mental
health clinicians (i.e.,: depression or illness) or an individual who might have
a certain expertise (i.e.,: a recovering alcoholic who has been sober for some
time).
A final thought about
these theories is that there are many clinicians who use pieces of each of
these in their approach towards helping people. To some extent, a person who
seeks counseling might find certain approaches to their issues more useful
than others. There are many ways to get to the same place.
Employee
Assistance Programs (EAP) can help in a variety of ways:
- Providing short-term
assistance to individuals on personal matters such as substance abuse, transitional
life issues such as retirement depression and anxiety, problems in the workplace
and family problems.
- EAP is open to consult
with employers and employees. These contacts are confidential.
- An EAP counselor helps
employers and employees to work out differences and job performance issues.
The goal is to resolve the impasse in a productive manner that helps all involved.
- After an issue is identified,
a referral can be provided to the employee or employer.
- For more immediate problems
that might be harmful or dangerous, crisis intervention is another goal of
EAP. These may include suicide, bomb scares or even violence in the workplace.
This safety net can avoid the violent workplace situations that we have seen
in the news over the last couple of years.
- Follow-up counseling
is another possible use of EAP services.
- EAP can also provide
referrals to community resources if long-term counseling or psychopharmacology
is needed. Referrals can be made to a variety of community resources as well
(i.e.,: long-term care providers).
If you would like to obtain
a referral to counseling, go to http://www.mhra.net
If you would like more
information regarding this topic, please call the Civilian Employee Assistance
Program Counseling and Referral Service (CEAP C/RS) at (202) 433-0087 or outside
the local dialing area you may use 1-800-995-9791.
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